Tables Wk 3
by Adam Bellamy | Sep 15, 2025 | Tables
Day 1: The Company We Keep
Devotional
We’ve all heard the saying, “You are the company you keep.” This wisdom isn’t just a modern proverb—it’s deeply biblical. The people we surround ourselves with shape our thoughts, behaviors, and ultimately our character.
Holiness isn’t about following a rigid set of rules or isolating ourselves from the world. Rather, it’s about communion with God and making wise choices about our relationships. The tables we sit at—those places where we share life, conversation, and influence—matter tremendously in our spiritual journey.
When we choose to regularly associate with those who pull us away from God’s best for us, we shouldn’t be surprised when our spiritual life begins to wither. On the other hand, when we intentionally connect with those who encourage our faith and challenge us to grow, we flourish.
Today, take a moment to consider the tables where you’re sitting. Are the people around those tables drawing you closer to Christ or pulling you away? This isn’t about judging others but about honestly assessing the impact of your closest relationships on your walk with God.
Bible Verse
“Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way that sinners take or sit in the company of mockers.” – Psalms 1:1
Reflection Question
Who are the five people you spend the most time with, and how are they influencing your spiritual journey?
Quote
“You’re the sum of the five people you hang out with the most. If you don’t like the trajectory of your life, you need to get up and change tables.”
Prayer
Lord, give me wisdom to evaluate my relationships honestly. Help me to be intentional about the company I keep, seeking out those who will encourage me in holiness while showing Your love to everyone I meet. Guide me to the right tables that will nurture my relationship with You. Amen.
Day 2: The Spreading Nature of Sin
Devotional
Have you ever watched a small drop of food coloring disperse through a glass of water? What starts as a tiny, concentrated spot quickly spreads until it changes the entire glass. This is exactly how sin works in our lives and communities.
Paul uses the metaphor of leaven (or yeast) spreading through dough to illustrate this truth. Just a little bit of yeast works through the entire batch of dough, changing its very nature. Similarly, when we allow sin to remain unchecked in our lives or communities, it doesn’t stay neatly contained—it spreads and affects everything it touches.
This is why the company we keep matters so much. When we regularly associate with those who normalize or encourage sinful behavior, those influences gradually work their way into our own hearts and minds. What once seemed clearly wrong may begin to appear acceptable or even desirable.
This doesn’t mean we avoid all contact with those who don’t share our faith or values. Jesus himself was known as a friend of sinners! But it does mean being intentional about who we allow to deeply influence us and shape our character.
Bible Verse
“Your boasting is not good. Don’t you know that a little yeast leavens the whole batch of dough? Get rid of the old yeast, so that you may be a new unleavened batch—as you really are. For Christ, our Passover lamb, has been sacrificed.” – 1 Corinthians 5:6-7
Reflection Question
What influences in your life might be spreading like yeast, subtly changing your perspective on sin and holiness?
Quote
“Sin, like yeast, doesn’t stay contained. It always spreads. Sin will take you further and to worse places than you ever intended on it to go.”
Prayer
Father, help me recognize the subtle ways sin can spread in my life through the influences I allow. Give me discernment to identify these patterns and courage to make changes where needed. Create in me a clean heart that desires Your holiness above all else. Amen.
Day 3: Choosing the Right Table
Devotional
Life presents us with many tables where we can choose to sit—tables of gossip, bitterness, worldly ambition, or self-indulgence. But there are also tables of encouragement, wisdom, faith, and love. The tables we choose to sit at regularly will inevitably shape who we become.
When we consistently sit at tables where Christ is not honored, we shouldn’t be surprised when our own commitment to Christ begins to waver. Our spiritual fruit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—can wither when we’re not rooted in life-giving community.
This doesn’t mean we should only associate with people who are exactly like us or who never struggle. In fact, some of the best tables are those where honest questions are welcomed, and authentic struggles are shared. The key question is not whether everyone at the table is perfect, but whether the overall direction of the table is toward Christ or away from Him.
Today, consider whether your current tables are producing the fruit you desire in your life. If not, it may be time to courageously seek new tables or to transform existing ones by bringing Christ to the center.
Bible Verse
“Do not be misled: ‘Bad company corrupts good character.'” – 1 Corinthians 15:33
Reflection Question
What tables in your life need to be evaluated, and what would it look like to make Christ the centerpiece of those relationships?
Quote
“Does the table lead me to holiness and wholeness? And is it a table that Christ is the centerpiece on? And if it’s not, it’s the wrong table and you either need to get up and leave or you need to flip it.”
Prayer
Jesus, give me courage to evaluate the tables where I sit. Help me to seek out relationships that nurture my faith and challenge me to grow. Where I need to make changes, grant me wisdom and strength. Where I need to be an influence for You at difficult tables, equip me to represent You well. Amen.
Day 4: Restoration, Not Rejection
Devotional
When we talk about avoiding harmful influences, it can be easy to develop a harsh, judgmental attitude. We might be tempted to write people off or create an us-versus-them mentality. But this misses the heart of God, who always seeks restoration rather than rejection.
Church discipline, properly understood, is never about punishment or humiliation. It’s about healing and restoration. When Paul instructed the Corinthian church to address sin in their midst, his ultimate goal wasn’t to cast people out permanently but to create a pathway for repentance and return.
True holiness makes room for both grace and truth. It doesn’t compromise on God’s standards, but it also doesn’t forget God’s mercy. When we see others struggling with sin, our response should be gentle correction motivated by love, not harsh condemnation motivated by pride.
Remember that none of us is beyond the need for restoration. We all stumble in many ways. The question isn’t whether we’ll need grace and correction, but how we’ll respond when it comes—and how we’ll extend it to others when they need it.
Bible Verse
“Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.” – Galatians 6:1
Reflection Question
How can you balance truth and grace in your relationships, especially when addressing sin or harmful patterns?
Quote
“Discipline in the church is never meant to humiliate. It’s always meant to heal.”
Prayer
God of grace and truth, help me to respond to sin—both in my own life and in others’—with Your heart. Keep me from both harsh judgment and passive enablement. Give me wisdom to know when to speak and what to say, always aiming for restoration rather than rejection. Make me an agent of Your healing love. Amen.
Day 5: Growing in Holiness Together
Devotional
Holiness isn’t a solo journey. While our relationship with God is personal, it was never meant to be private. We grow in holiness together, as part of a community committed to becoming more like Christ.
The health of the church depends on the holiness of its individual members. When we each pursue communion with God and wise fellowship with others, the entire body benefits. Conversely, when we neglect holiness or tolerate sin, the whole community suffers.
This is why Paul was so concerned about the Corinthian church addressing sin in their midst. He knew that their collective witness and spiritual health were at stake. The same is true for us today.
As we conclude this devotional series, remember that pursuing holiness isn’t about achieving moral perfection through our own efforts. It’s about drawing near to God, allowing His presence to transform us, and surrounding ourselves with people who encourage us in this journey.
We are constantly being saved—continually transformed by God’s grace as we walk with Him and with each other. Let’s commit to this journey together, creating tables where Christ is at the center and holiness can flourish.
Bible Verse
“Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” – 2 Corinthians 6:14
Reflection Question
How can you contribute to creating a community where holiness is valued and nurtured?
Quote
“The health of the church, the health of the body of Christ depends on the holiness of the individuals that are in it. Our church can’t be any more holy than you are.”
Prayer
Lord, thank You for the gift of community. Help us to grow in holiness together, encouraging one another and holding each other accountable with love. Show me how I can contribute to creating spaces where Your presence is welcomed and Your transformation is evident. May our lives together reflect Your character to a watching world. Amen.